{"id":7902,"date":"2024-12-30T23:30:08","date_gmt":"2024-12-30T14:30:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/?p=7902"},"modified":"2024-12-30T23:31:45","modified_gmt":"2024-12-30T14:31:45","slug":"online-dating-special-pt-2-the-cheaters-ashley","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/?p=7902","title":{"rendered":"Online Dating Special (pt 2): The Cheaters, Ashley Madison, AOL Screen Names, Murdering Monogamy, Pandemic Affairs, Flirty Fembots"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><title>Online Dating Special (pt 2): The Cheaters, Ashley Madison, AOL Screen Names, Murdering Monogamy, Pandemic Affairs, Flirty Fembots<\/title><\/p>\n<h2>How the Times Have Changed<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com\/images\/I\/A1InUBqmcVL._SY600_.jpg\" alt=\"b\u00c3\u00a4sta postorder brudens webbplats\" width=\"450\" align=\"left\"><\/p>\n<p>This week I wanted to explore how the inception of online connections changed the trends in monogamy in the 2000&#8217;s through present day.<\/p>\n<p>So &#8211; Since the inception of chat rooms, the internet became practically a breeding ground for naughty behavior. We quickly <a href=\"https:\/\/kissbridesdate.com\/sv\/blogg\/vackraste-kvinnor-i-varlden\/\">https:\/\/kissbridesdate.com\/sv\/blogg\/vackraste-kvinnor-i-varlden\/<\/a> learned &#8211; in the 90&#8217;s when we started to have the ability to chat and email with others that the definition of infidelity needed to be redefined to include consideration for online relationships. I remember this shift happening and a lot of conversations around it &#8211; like storylines on prime time tv which quickly became fodder for a like your Sally Jessie Raphaels.<!--more--> Do you remember this Amanda?<\/p>\n<p>AOL in the 90&#8217;s I remember was this insane space to connect suddenly with anyone and it was the wild, wild west. There were no restrictions &#8211; I mean, Amanda, you have seen PEN15 &#8211; this was real. Parents had no idea that this was like a cesspool of potential stranger danger and most kids (myself included &#8211; particularly coming from a relitively sheltered upbringing) had literally no concept of this new weird world around them. My sister Stephanie would kill me if I didn&#8217;t mention this story. So in 1996 Swingers the movie rose to widespread popularity when I was 16 (BTW doesn&#8217;t hold up) &#8211; it was also when AOL chat was sweeping the nation and we were all setting up our screen names. So I chose Swinger as my handle after this trendy word and AOL gave me some assorted numbers since there were already some Swingers &#8211; So I was Swinger689. Naturally from the Midwest in the 90&#8217;s and very naive we really had no idea that I basically had the ultimate chat name to get propositioned and had no idea that Swinger also was some other more sexual meanings. Everytime I was in a chat room dudes were always trying to take me into a private chat &#8211; i kinda thought that was normal &#8211; and i always declined because of course i had no interest in talking to strange men &#8211; I mean I am pretty sure I had my age in my profile &#8211; like I am 16 or 17 YO female so that was just kindling for the creeps.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway &#8211; The newfound ability to covertly have conversations created a whole new set of circumstances and definitions of what infidelity means &#8211; and even the more lazy or socially distanced cheaters had access to potential cheating options. So this definition had to include a romantic and\/or sexual relationship with someone other than the spouse or significant other, which begins with an online contact and is maintained mainly through electronic conversations that occur through e-mail and chat rooms.<\/p>\n<h2>The Polls are In<\/h2>\n<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8eh2MgRuWcI&#038;pp=ygUbYmVzdCBtYWlsIG9yZGVyIGJyaWRlIHNpdGVz\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Last year (so in 2020), a YouGov poll found that some 17% of users across all dating apps were there to cheat on their current partners.<\/p>\n<h2>More Monogomy Moves<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/asianmailorderbride.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/irrr.jpg\" alt=\"hur man f\u00c3\u00b6rbereder en postorder brud reddit\" width=\"450\" align=\"left\"><\/p>\n<p>There was an interesting trend in Monogamy happening in the 2000s &#8211; essentially before the early aughts and through the 90&#8217;s people 18-55 were more likely to have extra the lines essentially CROSSED and it switched. And the older folks reported more affairs &#8211; and like quite a lot more &#8211; according to a survey done by Institute for Family Studies while the 18-55 severely declined.<\/p>\n<p>So this was an ongoing trend happening -right on up to the pandemic &#8211; But then COVID hit and all bets were off and marriages showing cracks. Which helps me slide right into my main segment.<\/p>\n<p>Ashley Madison &#8211; the online dating site founded in 2002 for arital affairs is reportedly having a boon year because of the pandemic. So you may remember Ashley Madison &#8211; who had a seriously insane hack that destroyed a lot of lives in 2015. Anyone who remembers this may ask &#8211; woah are they still around? Yes, they are and doing quite well may I add.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Online Dating Special (pt 2): The Cheaters, Ashley Madison, AOL Screen Names, Murdering Monogamy, Pandemic Affairs, Flirty Fembots How the Times Have Changed This week I wanted to explore how the inception of online connections changed the trends in monogamy in the 2000&#8217;s through present day. So &#8211; Since the inception of chat rooms, the internet became practically a breeding ground for naughty behavior. We quickly https:\/\/kissbridesdate.com\/sv\/blogg\/vackraste-kvinnor-i-varlden\/ learned &#8211; in the 90&#8217;s when we started to have the ability to chat and email with others that the definition of infidelity needed to be redefined to include consideration for online relationships. I remember this shift happening and a lot of conversations around it &#8211; like storylines on prime time tv which quickly became fodder for a like your Sally Jessie Raphaels.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_eb_attr":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[126],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7902","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-postorder-brudtjnstdefinition-97"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7902","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7902"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7902\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7902"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7902"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gw.nordinary.co.kr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7902"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}